Wednesday, 1 January 2014

Ways to make friends and strengthen yourself socially..!!!

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Ways to make friends and strengthen yourself socially..!!!
Is that person on the corner of the room making friends whomever he meets, Surprised? What is their secret mantra that people easily become a friend?
How does he solve the mystery of befriending, each and every one he meets? Traits that are required for being a
guru in making friends are many. Of the many, some important ones have been listed below, follow them and develop them for our benefit. I am sure it will also help you
make yourself as a better individual.

a. First secret is making a good eye contact

Making a sound and steady eye connection talks about thousand things and is one of the vital trail
to have as an individual. This trait is probably the most important character of a person of the lot we are going to discuss going on.

b. Make sure you are oozing with Confidence

Is confidence pushing to the abyss?
If yes, then start boosting your self assuring levels. Make sure you work on
you mind and body which inturn are the boosters of your confidence. Head to the gym, join a club etc in order to make your mind and body be in tandem and in peace.

c. Humer helps, why do you think comedians have so many friends. Let
it flow in your blood.

Let people recongnize as you the one with cheering up skills. With your humor make the people perceive you to be a mavrick in everything you do. Humor can help it in a big way. Be the favorite of the crowd
with your humor. That is when you start making friends from all walks of life.

d. Be the one to start the conversation

Be the first one to start the conversation. All I am saying here is do not wait for people to approach, if
you think that girl you see is gorgeous and you want to befriend her, go ahead ping her. Almost any topic should be fine. If you
see that waiter, tell him that his clothes are really good and he looks awesome today.

e. Start with a
small talk to make them comfortable

Small is sweet, hence start the conversation through a small talk. For example, if you are in a cab, ask the driver what his name is and where he is from. That should
be enough to start with.

f. Listening Completely helps

I dont think I have to elaborate on this. You all know about this.
The
best out come of listening properly is that you will be able to identify topics in which the other person is interested in. Listening has always help and will
continue to do so. !! Being a good
listener helps you to find the similar areas of interest between you and rightly divert the conversation however you want. It helps a great deal. For example, if the other person is interested in arts and
paintings, invite her to an art gallery or museum.

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